Everybody is unique in the world
已有 134 次阅读 2012-05-09 16:14 标签: creative something capacity hearingEach human being is born as something new, something that never existed
before. Each is born with the capacity to win at life. Each person has a unique
way of seeing, hearing, touching, tasting and thinking. Each has his or her own
unique potentials---capabilities and limitations. Each can be a significant,
thinking, aware, and creative being---a productive person, a winner.
The word
“winner” and “loser” have many meanings. When we refer to a person as a winner,
we do not mean one who makes someone else lose. To us, a winner is one who
responds authentically by being credible, trustworthy, responsive, and genuine,
both as an individual and as a member of a society.
Winners do not dedicated
their lives to a concept of what they imagine they should be; rather, they are
themselves and as such do not use their energy putting on a performance,
maintaining pretence and manipulating others. They are aware that there is a
difference between being loving and acting loving, between being stupid and
acting stupid ball mill, between being
knowledgeable and acting knowledgeable. Winners do not need to hide behind a
mask.
Winners are not afraid to do their own thinking and to use their own
knowledge. They can separate facts from opinions and don’t pretend to have all
the answers. They listen to others, evaluate what they say, but come to their
own conclusions. Although winners can admire and respect other people, they are
not totally defined, demolished, bound, or awed by them.
Winners do not play
“helpless”, nor do they play the blaming game. Instead, they assume
responsibility for their own lives. They don’t give others a false authority
over them. Winners are their own bosses and know it.
A winner’s timing is
right. Winners respond appropriately to the situation. Their responses are
related to the message sent and preserve the significance, worth, well-being,
and dignity of the people involved. Winners know that for sand maker there is a
season and for every activity a time.
Although winners can freely enjoy
themselves, they can also postpone enjoyment, can discipline themselves in the
present to enhance their enjoyment in the future. Winners are not afraid to go
after what he wants, but they do so in proper ways. Winners do not get their
security by controlling others. They do not set themselves up to lose.
A
winner cares about the world and its peoples. A winner is not isolated from the
general problems of society, but is concerned, compassionate, and committed to
improving the quality of life. Even in the face of national and international
adversity, a winner’s self-image is not one of a powerless individual. A winner
works to make the world a better place.
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